some PERSONAL tots

after reading er jie's blog, my tots juz flash thru my mind. i intend to blog some of my random thoughts. however, i wanna emphasize that i still prefer sharing my tots wif u jie jie men. cuz blog has no tone and has no response from u all... i really looking forward to another outings whereby we can sit at cafe and chat things that under sun not only THEM..

personally, i think tt wen u gonna tell the person bout his/her bad pointS, u better choose a face-to-face situation. i think it is safer for both party. u got guage her response and decide should like continue telling her? or have i gone overboard or have i try to reduce "hurtness" level? listening party can oso guage whether ur tone issit sincere-really thru ur heart or u r trying hard to "hurt" her? she oso can realise the serious-ness of her bad points. like for mi, ppl noe i very gua zhang. mayb they think it is a serious weakness of mi. but for mi, i think is the way i speak? if they have told mi serious like tt time in library, i have stopped being tt way.

So, the moral of story is if u gals really dun like mi from any points, juz tell mi straight to my face!ok? tt is wat i have been telling u gals since year 1. it seems tt my words are rubbish.

to reply jac's blog, i oso dun understand y they bother to call u to clarify their thoughts? cuz now they really turn into different faces - very er du. i mean i really cant imagine they can change their character 180 deg,esp sh & st. i mean if they can IGNORE us now, y at the point they still wan to clarify? might as well, go into separate paths? nowadays they r trying to draw a line btw "us" or rather us n them. To me, if happen to go to the same foodcourt we can sit togther cuz there wun b any diff- in the end, we still stick to 4 per grp. if they have their own idea to any where or we have our plans to follow, we juz go separate. mayb is already "understooded" from 2weeks experience.haha

PS: we can have only few of TRUE frenz in our life. if u think tt u have plenty TRUE frenz, tt is the time u should step back n think bout it again. to mi, true frenz r frenz tt i dun mind sharing up to 95% of my life. another 5% is really PERSONAL things.

jie jie men, i feel the "click" wif u all not because we can gossip bout the REST but is because i'm comfortable sharing my personal stuff. I like u gals who willing to share most of ur funny and interesing personal things and some disturbing stuff wif mi.